flame can crop up practically anywhere. The classic formula:
someone makes a sexist/racist/homophobic/fascist remark, and a hundred watchdogs step in and flame at will.
Those with evolved sensibilities bear special responsibilities here. We
must realize that not everyone is as enlightened as we are. The chance
that you'll change the mind or heart of an ignoramus via a flame is
negligible. In fact, your flameage may be exactly what the sexist/racist,
etc. lout wants in the first place. If you're a sensitive person, it may be
best to avoid the many hang-outs of the politically incorrect.
On the other hand, Netiquette doesn't require you to stand idly by while
other people spout offensive nonsense. Answer as passionately and
forcibly as you like, but avoid personal attacks. A calm, logical
response always strengthens your position. Listening to what the other
person is trying to say doesn't hurt either.